On one of our last family trips as the kids got older, this one to Jamaica, we decided to take a night to ourselves and wandered over to the resort next door we heard was a sexy adult place – just to look and observe. We loved observing the sexy dancing, the music and the full abandonment of singles and couples there.

A funny thing happened as we were leaving, and a handsome french younger man started flirting with Tessa. He then asked me “are you toler(ahnt).” At that time, we did not know what he was asking. Now we look back at that and laugh.

It was obvious that what happened next was because Tessa was feeling particularly sexy herself that night.