Sex and Science (Season 6 | Episode 233)

with Dr. Laurie Mintz

[TESSA] In this episode, we dive deep into the transformative journey of life as open nesters, exploring how the post-childrearing phase can open doors to new relationships and adventures. As my partner and I embrace this new chapter, we firmly believe that it is not just a transition, but an opportunity to enrich our lives beyond the conventional notions of empty nesting. The conversation aims to inspire others to see this stage as a vibrant exploration of personal growth, travel, and connection with family and friends.

Meet Dr. Laurie Mintz.

Sex and Science (Season 6 | Episode 233)

I have the pleasure of welcoming Dr. Laurie Mintz, a renowned psychologist and sex therapist, who brings a wealth of knowledge about women’s sexuality, especially as they navigate aging and menopause. Dr. Mintz shares her insights on maintaining intimacy and sexual connection in long-term relationships, emphasizing the importance of presence and communication. She discusses her personal experiences as a mother to adult daughters and how these experiences enrich her understanding of the desire to lead a fulfilling life both within and outside of the bedroom.

3:21 Embracing Aging and Sexuality

11:54 Understanding Menopause and Sexual Health

15:28 Navigating Vaginal Health Solutions

19:43 Exploring Orgasm Diversity

23:13 Mental Blocks to Sexual Pleasure

26:03 Connecting with Dr. Laurie Mintz

A significant theme of our discussion is the intersection of sexuality and aging. Dr. Mintz offers valuable advice on managing the physical changes that come with menopause, addressing issues that many women face regarding sexual health and pleasure. She explains the concept of genitourinary syndrome of menopause, demystifying its effects on intimacy and providing practical solutions, including hormone treatments and the importance of using lubricants and vibrators to enhance sexual experience.

We explore the impact of SSRIs (Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors) on sexual health, as Dr. Mintz opens up about her own journey of managing the side effects of medication that affected her orgasmic capacity. She shares breakthroughs she discovered through her connections in the medical community, including innovative products designed to enhance women’s sexual health. Her passion for empowering women to reclaim their sexual pleasure is evident as she discusses the upcoming launch of a groundbreaking program aimed at helping women who have experienced sexuality challenges due to various factors, including stress and hormonal changes.

Throughout our conversation, we emphasize the importance of novelty and creativity in intimate relationships. Dr. Mintz reveals the science behind how engaging in new experiences together can enhance intimacy and connection, proving that maintaining an exciting sex life requires effort, but it is utterly rewarding. We touch on the mental aspects of sexual pleasure, encouraging listeners to cultivate mindfulness and to focus on sensations rather than distractions in order to fully embrace their experiences.

The episode concludes with actionable advice for women seeking to navigate their changing bodies and relationships, coupled with the reminder that open communication is paramount for intimacy. I leave listeners with the hope that they will approach their own transitions with an open heart, inspired by the possibilities of this expansive life phase.

For those interested in furthering their understanding of these themes, Dr. Mintz provides information on how to connect with her through social media and her website, where followers can learn more about her work. The insights gained in this episode are not just informative; they invite reflection and dialogue on the beauty of aging and the pivotal moments that define our journey as individuals and partners.

About Tessa

Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author, and, of course, Podcaster.

Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature. If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives.

Please email Tessa to make a connection. And visit her page here on the Open Nesters Website. If you like, please answer the question:

What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…