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Dominatrix and Submissive: Exploring Power Dynamics
with Heather Hundhausen
(Season 4 | Episode 164)
[Tessa] Heather Hundhausen is our guest this week on The Open Nesters Podcast. We continue our conversation – it has been a few years since we first met Heather in Episode 43, Paradoxical Power and Healing with the Dominatrix.
Today our focus shifts towards embracing open nesting and exploring new adventures in Act Three of life. Guest Heather Hundhausen, a coach and dominatrix, joins Amir and me to delve into the complexities of power dynamics in relationships. Heather candidly shares her experiences as a parent navigating the departure of her teenager for college, prompting a reevaluation of her relationships and future plans.
Heather’s journey of self-discovery and growth is intertwined with her polyamorous lifestyle and unique dating preferences. She sheds light on her upcoming dominatrix workshop, aiming to educate women on dominance and submission dynamics. The conversation evolves to delve into BDSM practices, emphasizing the importance of consent, trust, and the psychological aspects of power dynamics in dominant-submissive relationships. Please learn more about Heather on her website: Heather Hundhausen
EXPLORING POWER DYNAMICS



In this episode with Heather we further explore the concept of Existential Kink, highlighting the significance of introspection and understanding one’s desires for personal growth. I am so pleased that dive into the healing aspects of BDSM, distinguishing between healthy power dynamics for growth and damaging practices.
To be crystal clear, in this episode we emphasize the therapeutic potential of consensual BDSM play in addressing past traumas and promoting emotional release.
Heather delves into the role of power exchange in BDSM for healing, reflecting on the exploration of submission as a form of release and growth. The discussion extends to the impact of BDSM on personal growth, relationships, and the importance of open communication and mutual understanding between partners.
As regular listeners of this podcast already know, we encourage listeners to embrace their desires, explore alternative relationship dynamics, and approach discussions around sexuality with honesty and respect.
The episode concludes with insights on navigating kink, BDSM, or fetish play within relationships, emphasizing the creation of a safe and supportive space for open dialogue and exploration of desires. Heather underscores the significance of consent, mutual respect, and fostering a secure environment for intimate exploration.
The podcast serves as a platform for educating and enlightening listeners on power dynamics, sexual exploration, and embracing diverse relationship dynamics with curiosity and understanding.
Resources for You
We want to provide you with support and many many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness, relationship fluidity in the empty nest, and other topics of interest:
About Tessa
Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.
Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.
Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature. If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives.
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What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…
- Adventure
- Freedom of Expression
- Exploration and Fun
- Body Movement
- New circles of friends
- Deep love relationships
