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Loving Without Boundaries
with Kitty Chambliss (S5 | E180)
In this episode of Loving Without Boundaries, hosted by Kitty Chambliss, Tessa and Amir from the Open Nesters podcast return for an enlightening reunion after four years since their last appearance. Their previous discussion focused on their burgeoning journey into polyamory, and now, they reflect on how their understanding and experience have deepened over time. With the passage of four years filled with growth, exploration, and profound transformations in their relationships, Tessa and Amir share the lessons they’ve gleaned and the ways their practices in open relating have evolved.
Loving without Boundaries
Throughout the conversation, they delve into the intricacies of navigating open relationships while prioritizing their families, particularly how they have cherished intentional time with their adult children and nurtured their roles as grandparents. They discuss the dynamics of holding space for love in multiple facets, revealing how their eclectic erotic blueprints have shaped their individual and shared experiences. Tessa and Amir explore various themes, including emotional evolution, communication in intimacy, and the importance of establishing a unified partnership project—like their podcast—that enriches their connection.
Both Tessa and Amir find themselves in different yet complementary spaces within their relationship; while Amir has embraced his experience of love with another partner, Tessa reflects on her emotional journey and the challenges she has faced, such as feelings of jealousy and navigating attachment styles. They candidly share insights on how their distinct paths are not only fulfilling but are also reflective of their growth as individuals and as a couple. Their ability to communicate openly about their sexual explorations enhances their mutual understanding and strengthens their bond.
Tessa particularly emphasizes the importance of somatic practices, such as dance and breathwork, as tools for self-discovery and emotional release, drawing connections between personal well-being and relational dynamics. Through their reflective dialogue, they illuminate how embracing a playful and exploratory spirit in their lives fosters resilience and intimacy.
Amir, on his end, focuses on how openly discussing feelings and working through conflicts—what they term “breakdowns” leading to “breakthroughs”—is essential in cultivating a lasting relationship.
The Open Nesters podcast evolves into a platform not only for sharing their journey of polyamory and open relationships but also for exploring broader themes such as family dynamics, aging, and the joy of maintaining curiosity and playful engagement in life as they grow older. They reflect on how their listeners have resonated with their experiences and the impact of their messages on others navigating similar paths.
Loving without Boundaries | Let’s Wrap Up
As the episode wraps up, Tessa and Amir leave listeners with a profound reminder of the richness that comes with embracing life’s transitions and the endless possibilities that lie within open relationships. Their journey stands as a testament to the beauty of evolving together while maintaining individual desires and identities, encouraging others to remain curious and engaged with their partners in the pursuit of authentic connection. The resonance of their story serves as a beacon for those exploring their own narratives in the realms of love and intimacy.
Resources for You
We want to provide you with support and many many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness, relationship fluidity in the empty nest, and other topics of interest:
About Tessa
Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.
Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author and, of course, Podcaster.
Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature. If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives.
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What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE…
- Adventure
- Freedom of Expression
- Exploration and Fun
- Body Movement
- New circles of friends
- Deep love relationships
