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The Balance Between Us (S5 | E209)
with Tessa and Amir
THE BALANCEÂ BETWEEN US
In this episode of The Open Nesters Podcast, we dive into the often-asked questions we’ve received from our dedicated listeners and friends about embracing this unique stage of life we call “open nesting.” Rather than viewing ourselves as empty nesters, we embrace new opportunities for adventure, relationships, and personal growth. Together, we explore what it means to be open to endless possibilities, including the evolution of our connection through travel, interests, and valuing our individual journeys.
We begin by addressing the common inquiries around how we navigate our different interests, particularly in travel, and how we’ve cultivated autonomy while still maintaining a strong bond. Sharing personal anecdotes, we discuss the balance of enjoying experiences apart and together, emphasizing that these separate adventures have significantly enriched our relationship. We’ve learned to support each other’s desires—whether it’s attending conventions or exploring new destinations solo—while positioning our shared trips as a cornerstone of our connection.
The conversation seamlessly transitions into the deeper aspects of our relationship, including how we maintain emotional intimacy amidst changing dynamics. We reflect on the importance of communication and gratitude, framing our journey through open relationships as one that encourages growth and appreciation for each other’s happiness. Addressing potential challenges such as jealousy, we emphasize the value of intentional time together, allowing our love to flourish through curiosity and mutual encouragement—qualities that keep our dynamic vibrant and engaging.
Moreover, we tackle the various stages of life, balancing career pursuits with newfound freedom as we age. Each of us brings unique perspectives on work-life balance and fulfillment. I share insights into my continued professional engagement, while my partner reflects on the joys of pursuing passions without the constraints of a full-time job. Together, we emphasize how prioritizing time for each other, alongside our individual pursuits, lays the foundation for lasting love.
As we wrap up, we acknowledge that navigating this open-nesting stage is an ongoing and sometimes imperfect journey. Yet, it’s through the recalibrations, honest conversations, and mutual respect that we continue to thrive. We express our intentions to engage further with our audience by answering additional questions in future episodes, reflecting our commitment to sharing the wisdom and insights gathered through our unique experiences.
Resources for You
We want to provide you with support and many many resources for your own Open Nesting Journey. Our resource page has so much to offer as does our private discussion group on Facebook about queerness and other topics of interest:
The Open Nesters Private Facebook Group
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