Turning on the Light

(Season 6 | Episode 236)

with Tami Nora and Karen Yadovsky

In this episode, I continue my enlightening conversation with Karen and Tammy, who previously joined us to discuss the transformative journey of embracing our roles as open nesters. We delve into the poignant theme of reclaiming self-worth while exploring the powerful concept of nurturing our inner child. We begin by reflecting on how our past experiences shape our understanding of relationships, particularly in the context of motherhood and the complex dynamics often at play with our family members.

Turning on the Lightl (Season 6 | Episode 236)

Tammy opens up about her childhood struggles, detailing her quest to heal from emotional suffering and alleviate the pain of others. She emphasizes the importance of self-respect and boundaries, especially in difficult familial relationships, sharing her personal journey of reaching out to her elderly mother—a woman who has been both a source of love and conflict. Through her story, Tammy highlights the profound realization that love can exist even amidst dysfunction, and that we have the agency to cultivate healing within ourselves, regardless of others’ actions.

1:23 Journey of Self-Worth

6:53 Healing Through Relationships

13:58 Lessons from Motherhood

23:24 Cleaning Negative Thoughts

29:56 Embracing Your Inner Child

36:57 Becoming the Mother Within

38:05 Rewriting Your Next Chapter

Karen expresses her own experiences with self-acceptance, illustrating a parallel journey through the challenges of personal and familial expectations. She reflects on a childhood where she felt diminished by the perceptions of her teachers, and how these experiences fueled her drive to empower her children to embrace their individuality without comparison. She shares the importance of offering unconditional love as a parent, emphasizing the necessity of allowing our children space to grow—even if it includes phases of friction and conflict.

We dive deeper into the importance of inner work and the spiritual journey that can arise in midlife. The conversation shifts towards practical tools for personal growth, where Tammy introduces the concept of Ho’oponopono—an ancient Hawaiian practice of reconciliation and forgiveness. She discusses how this practice empowers us to take responsibility for our experiences and encourages a deeper connection with our inner selves. By becoming the “mother” of our inner child, we can nurture that part of ourselves that longs for love, acceptance, and healing.

Throughout our discussion, we touch upon the relevance of ‘cleaning our thoughts’ and recognizing the impact of negative beliefs instilled during our formative years. Tammy stresses that acknowledging these thoughts without judgment is the first step to transcending them, thus enabling a larger sense of self-love and acceptance. As we explore various breathing techniques and mindfulness practices, the importance of being present and cultivating a higher consciousness is reiterated.

The episode culminates in a shared appreciation for the empowering journey of reevaluating our relationships and self-perceptions as we navigate the challenges of life transitions. Karen and Tammy emphasize that through conversations and practices, we can rewrite our narratives and foster resilience within ourselves, ultimately thriving not only as individuals but also as mothers and mentors to others.

Listeners are invited to join our growing community on social media platforms, reflecting the shared intention of nurturing and uplifting one another as we embark on this incredible journey of self-discovery and transformation.

About Tessa

Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters.

Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author, and, of course, Podcaster.

Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature. If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives.

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